Read and Write

09 Nov

I look at my watch and crunch the numbers, and decide to keep going. One more. I have time. Besides, it’s a short chapter. Kind of. Everything else can wait.

Actually, the decision was made for me. I had to read more. Besides, I wasn’t really reading but consuming the book page by page. And I was ravenous.

I wanted more. More of the words which formed a running movie in my head. So, somehow in my crammed schedule, I stole time to read some more.

All you readers know just what I mean. I’m sure you could name a book or 30 that grabbed you like this. You rush to the end but are sad when it comes. Or maybe you slow down as you approach the conclusion savoring each scene, page, and word. When the end comes, you are both sad and exhilarated. For those of us who are also writers, maybe — like me — you feel a pang of jealousy and awe. You hope that you move people as you have been moved and are blown away by the writer’s skill.

I recently read Johnathan Tropper’s One Last Thing Before I Go. I became aware of Mr. Tropper while reading a review of one of his books at One Last Thing Before I Go focuses on a man in his 40s. His life is screwed up both personally (divorced, very distant relationship with his daughter) and professionally (after being the drummer of a band that had one hit song, he periodically plays weddings and bar mitzvahs). He gets the news that he must have surgery, or he will die. He decides his life is not worth saving. However, before he goes, he sets three goals: be a better man, be a better father, and fall in love. The book is about his uneven pursuit to fill these goals. There were moments of humor, sadness, and downright lunacy which encompassed both. I lost track of how many times I read a line or scene that forced me to ponder and think, “I wish I would have said that.”

Ultimately, this book made me feel writerish (I know that’s not a word, but I am using it anyway. For anyone who used to listen to Richie Ashburn announce Phillies games, this is a tip of the cap to him; he used to periodically announce that a particular batter looks hitterish.) I added a few chapters to the novel that I have been writing in my head. I have a short story idea that I will be pursuing. I already stole an idea for a recent blog. I am in a writing state of mind.

So, grab a copy of One Last Thing Before I Go byJonathan Tropper. But be prepared to change your schedule.


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40 responses to “Read and Write

  1. Sis

    November 9, 2012 at 1:29 am

    It sounds really good, I’ll have to look for it.

    • memyselfandkids

      November 9, 2012 at 3:14 am

      If you end up reading it, please let me know what you think.

  2. now at home mom

    November 9, 2012 at 1:57 am

    Ok, I think you’ve convinced me to get this book, I love reading at night when everyone is asleep, so this would be a good read! 🙂 thanks for sharing! 🙂

    • memyselfandkids

      November 9, 2012 at 3:16 am

      Cool. Please let me know what you think if you read it. I warn you might lose sleep as you will be getting to bed later and later due to your interest in the book.

  3. closefamilies

    November 9, 2012 at 2:04 am

    The books that do that to me… FOR me… are the ones really worth reading, and I gladly take time for them. The other ones (ahem, my attempt at Fifty Shades of Grey…) I can never seek to find time to finish. I love being inspired by a fresh, new book.
    And I like your word “writerish.” I think of Mark Twain who made up all sorts of new words in his writings. And he was one of the greats.

    • memyselfandkids

      November 9, 2012 at 3:18 am

      Mark Twain is one of those people whom I think it would have been fun to sit down and have a beer with.
      Not knowing your tastes, I can’t guarantee this book would do it for you. However, I can guarantee it is a quality book.

      • closefamilies

        November 9, 2012 at 2:12 pm

        We live very close to Mark Twain’s original home. It is a very inspiring place to visit, and not very popular, so it’s a peaceful place too. A great place to write.. if I didn’t have children along. lol

        • memyselfandkids

          November 9, 2012 at 2:26 pm

          That’s cool.
          Children along making it less peaceful – oh wow do I hear you.

  4. optimisticgladness

    November 9, 2012 at 3:21 am

    writerish….I like it.

    • memyselfandkids

      November 9, 2012 at 3:21 am

      Thanks. Feel free to use it but please note the source and send me a dollar everytime you do.

      • optimisticgladness

        November 9, 2012 at 3:31 am

        Oh, its copywrited is it? I’ll be sure to do that. 🙂

        • memyselfandkids

          November 9, 2012 at 3:32 am

          Not copywrited just yet. I’ll have to look into that.

          • optimisticgladness

            November 9, 2012 at 3:34 am

            you mean “copy writerish”

          • memyselfandkids

            November 9, 2012 at 4:15 am


  5. elskenewman

    November 9, 2012 at 5:59 am

    Writerish! That’s brilliant! Good word.

    • memyselfandkids

      November 9, 2012 at 1:51 pm

      Thanks. Feel free to use it – just mention me and my blog every time.

  6. Joyce

    November 9, 2012 at 3:56 pm

    I sincerely miss reading, although when I did read, it was all nonfiction. However, you make me want to read this one…I’ll have to look for it.

    • memyselfandkids

      November 9, 2012 at 4:48 pm

      I enjoy both non fiction and fiction. I go through phases.
      If you get to this one, let me know what you think.

  7. insanityofmotherhood

    November 9, 2012 at 7:06 pm

    Reading has been placed low on list of priorities and yet I know how important it is to improve on writing skills. Thanks for the reminder.

    • memyselfandkids

      November 11, 2012 at 2:44 am

      I go through phases where I find less time for reading, but I always miss it.

  8. ateachablemom

    November 9, 2012 at 11:25 pm

    This is one of my favorite authors! If you haven’t already, read “This is where I leave you” when you have a few “extra” moments! And yes, I have exactly the feelings about reading and writing you described so eloquently!

    • memyselfandkids

      November 11, 2012 at 2:46 am

      Cool. I will read that one. Now, I have Everything Changes. Did you read that one? What about the one I referred to in the post – have you read it yet? If so, what did you think? Btw, he reminds me of Richard Russo? Have you read any of his work?

      • ateachablemom

        November 11, 2012 at 4:47 am

        I don’t think I’ve ever read Richard Russo. I’ll check him out. I’ve read all three Jonathon Tropper books you mentioned and liked “This is Where I Leave You” the most, maybe because it was the first of his that I read. Enjoy!

        • memyselfandkids

          November 12, 2012 at 3:32 am

          I am now reading Everything Changes. I am enjoying it though not as much as the first one. I’ll check out the one you reccomend next.

  9. Raani York

    November 10, 2012 at 1:19 am

    I’m reading a lot – and I do thank you for your recommendation!

    • memyselfandkids

      November 11, 2012 at 2:47 am

      Sure – very welcome. If you get to this one, let me know what you think.

  10. Sailor Spouse

    November 10, 2012 at 4:17 pm

    I remember back in the school that the perfect time to sit down and read a book was during the summer. To be able to sit down and read true works of art by James Clavell, such as Shogun and King Rat, or Aztec by Gary Jennings, were perfect to take advantage of lazy days. Papillon by Henri Charriere is another fantastic read that I would recommend. These books draw you in from the first page to the last, and I guarantee you that you will not be disappointed. I’ll definitely take a look into One Last Thing Before I Go, and just wanted to say thank you for the support.

    • memyselfandkids

      November 11, 2012 at 2:49 am

      Its funny I cant remember much about the book King Rat but I do remember that I really liked it alot. It is nice to be able to find time to read a book that you enjoy. If you get to the book I reccomended, let me know.
      Btw, since you were service, what are your thoughts regarding the scandal w/Petraeus? What a fall!

      • Sailor Spouse

        November 12, 2012 at 4:40 am

        Oooo…. that’s a touchy subject. Not because I don’t have my own opinion towards it, but because politics and anything military related, such as this, are usually closely monitored and I have to be careful with what I say. All I can really say about it, is that I hope we can move past this and get the ship upright.

  11. Raani York

    November 11, 2012 at 5:55 pm


    You got the Reality Blog Award from me. Check out my page:

    Just copy the pic, answer the question and nominate as many as you want. I figure the “rules” had been lost somewhere on the road. LOL

    Have fun! And Congratulations – you really deserve it!!


    • memyselfandkids

      November 11, 2012 at 10:13 pm

      I really appreciate your acknowledgement. I do enjoy your blog and comments as well.

  12. Marta

    November 11, 2012 at 10:06 pm

    I completely do this with books. Where I fall into another universe and I cannot do anything but read each page in a frenzied rush to see how it ends. But then it ends and you’re sad that its over and you do kind of wish you had read a little slower savored it more. I’ve never been a patient person and reading is no exception! I’ll definitely have to look for the book myself!

    • memyselfandkids

      November 11, 2012 at 10:08 pm

      Check it out and left me know what you think of it.

  13. the home tome

    November 12, 2012 at 3:08 pm

    That sounds great – am going to suggest it at my book group tonight! LOVE when a book grabs hold like that, and inspires. And yes, I do get unnaturally morose when I finish a good book – I miss the characters and mope around a little bit…

    • memyselfandkids

      November 12, 2012 at 3:55 pm

      Cool. I hope the group members are into it. Please keep me posted. I hope you and they like it.

  14. Nancy

    November 13, 2012 at 3:14 am

    I just finished a book like that. Sad to see it go, but I got nothing else done while I was reading it 😉

    • memyselfandkids

      November 13, 2012 at 3:24 am

      What is the name of the book? Maybe, I will check it out.

      • Nancy

        November 13, 2012 at 3:26 am

        “Settlement” by Ann Birch. It’s about Toronto in the early years, and it’s based on real characters. It’s a historical novel, not something I would normally be interested in, but this one caught my eye and it was really good.

        • memyselfandkids

          November 13, 2012 at 3:29 am

          I love historical novels. I can see why this one might appeal to you as a Torontoite (hope that is correct).


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